ber_sockbuf_ctrl( conn->lconn_sb, LBER_SB_OPT_SET_FD, &fd );
ld->ld_defconn = conn;
++ld->ld_defconn->lconn_refcnt; /* so it never gets closed/freed */
ber_sockbuf_ctrl( conn->lconn_sb, LBER_SB_OPT_SET_FD, &fd );
ld->ld_defconn = conn;
++ld->ld_defconn->lconn_refcnt; /* so it never gets closed/freed */