ITS#7589 Fix me_nodemax and related node sizes.

ITS#7589 Fix me_nodemax and related node sizes.

Change me_nodemax to not count the mp_ptrs[] entry. That's mostly
how it was used. Compare node sizes ">" me_nodemax instead of ">=".
The ">=" was a workaround for confusing sizes with and without the
mp_ptrs[] entry, but broke for nodes with size (old me_nodemax-1).

Explicitly make me_nodemax even. An odd value could break the
comparisons. It was even anyway because MDB_MINKEYS == 2.