improve gdb_init() sequence

improve gdb_init() sequence

Rework gdb_init to create flexible APIs (gdb_target_add_{one,all}) and
static helper (gdb_target_start) for starting GDB services.  Eliminates
duplicated code and provides general mechanisms for adding GDB services.
The 'init' command is updated to call the new API, and later patches can
decouple its policy of adding all targets therein.

Provides the new capability to use both piped and TCP servers when
multiple targets are defined.  The first target fills the pipe, and
others will be started on TCP ports (unless disabled, i.e. gdb_port=0).